Pat’s Journey in Life…(for Pat Sulleza Pellero)

Pat’s Journey in Life

(for Pat Sulleza Pelletero)

By Apolinario Villalobos

The gauge of the person’s desire to succeed in life is the degree of his or her enthusiasm in achieving such at all cost. A couple of years ago, I met a girl who at a very young age became a discreet prostitute along Avenida so that she could pursue her studies until she was adopted by a retired couple who treated her like their own. Children in depressed areas that surround Divisoria, a bustling center for wholesaling of local produce, derive earnings by waking up as early as two in the morning to gather vegetable trimmings to be cleaned and sold along the sidewalk. Only when they have sold enough to earn a little for their allowance, do they prepare themselves for school.

There are more inspiring stories that can pinch one’s heart, not for pity but for admiration. One of these is that of Pat’s. Upon graduating from high school, she decided to work for her college studies to lessen the burden of her parents whose income could barely suffice for the needs of their family. When she applied as a Student Assistant in the convent of the Oblates of Notre Dame (OND), she was readily accepted because of her outstanding academic record and remarkable character.

The determination to finish her studies boosted her strength as she faced the task that lay ahead. Though a little shock was felt during the early days of her stay in the convent, she got used to waking up at 4:30AM to start doing the household chores, one of which was braving the early breaking of dawn to buy pan de sal, popular local bread for breakfast. Other things had to be done until before 11:AM as during the time, she had to teach catechism at Tacurong Pilot School until 11:45AM. The remaining fifteen minutes till noon was spent walking her way back to the convent. From noon until two in the afternoon, she had to do other chores, after which she was left with thirty minutes to prepare herself for her classes which started at 2:30PM, until 8:00PM. That was her typical weekdays and weeknights. Saturdays were for laundry and weeding of the garden and doing research. Sundays were of course for the Mass and whatever were left of the chores, and the evenings were for studies.

Hectic was not enough to describe the life of Pat as a Student Assistant, but it prepared her for more pressure when she worked at Ramie Corporation (RamCor) when she graduated. She topped the qualifying exam given by the company for applicants. During the early days of Tacurong, ramie fiber was one of the products that it proudly produced. Another company, Kenram, cultivated the fibrous plant together with kenap. As with the abaca fiber of Albay province, ramie and kenap were among the top exported products of the Philippines, until the plantations in Tacurong were supplanted with African palm.

The time of Pat’s employment at RamCor was also the height of the unrest in the area due to the Muslim-Christian conflict which necessitated the stationing of a contingent of the 12th Infantry Battalion of the Philippine Army. Call it fate, but due to the unrest which caused the arrival of the men in fatigue, Pat met Ed (Eustaquio Edmundo Pellero), a Cebuano, and who was a member of the said contingent. As love can move mountains, so did theirs that also moved aside mountains of apprehensions because of financial limitations.

After her stint at RamCor, Pat taught for a while at the Sultan Kudarat National High School, now a Polytechnic University extension in the province. When the situation in Mindanao improved, the couple went to Manila and finally settled in Cavite. Pat still did her part as a working mother with her employment at the Philippine National Bank, until she finally decided to quit so that she could spend her time attending to the needs of their growing family. The couple is blessed with three offspring, Brendo Amor, Satea Mae, and Jonah Maureen, as well as, grandchildren, Lourdess Gem, Lorcan Gyo and Vaugn Eric Zain.

Pat grew up in a closely-knit family that espoused discipline and fear of God which molded her character as she was growing up. The traits could have been what the OND nuns perceived when she applied for a job as Student Assistant, and by her husband when he wooed her. She tried her best to imbue the same traits to her children who became successful in their chosen careers.

Pat is a town mate and our path crossed through the facebook after more than thirty years. I knew her as a chatty gal when she was in high school and college, making her easy to go along with. She could easily set the mood of conversation into something lively to put everyone at ease. Her satisfaction in life, proved that success is not spelled by money. She was successful in her hard-earned college degree, well-thought conjugal partnership with an equally hardworking guy, having equally well-disciplined offspring and healthy grandchildren, and today, contented as a retiree. All of these, of course, she owes to the only One whom she trusted ever since in her life when she embarked on a journey along its perilous corridor, beset with challenges.

From the Kitchen of Pat Sulleza…gurayan sandwich filling and rice topping

From the kitchen of Pat Sulleza: (based on her comment to my blog about food…)

*Gurayan sandwich filling and rice topping


1 kilo of anchovy (white variety, and small ones are preferred)
1 cup chopped kamyas (if not available, use young crushed tamarind, calamansi and vinegar, or the sour variety of green mango)
½ cup vinegar
thumb-sized ginger, crushed
salt to taste
pork oil
Optional: chili, bell pepper, and laurel leaves

Wash the anchovy thoroughly to reduce the fishy smell.
Cook in vinegar, kamyas, ginger and salt. Allow to boil for 15 to 20 minutes to eliminate some of the liquid. Add estimated amount of pork oil. Reduce fire and simmer for 5 minutes more. Allow ample amount of sauce to remain.

Best cooked in native earthen pot (palayok); if using ordinary stainless or steel cooking pot, line the bottom with fresh banana leaves, if available.
Another option is wrapping the anchovies in banana leaves and arranged inside the pot. If banana leaves are not available, pechay may be used.
The vinegar shall serve as preservative, so there is no worry for spoilage.
Young okra or eggplant may be added on top of the preparation while cooking, and they can be used later as garnishing to rice.
As filling for sandwich, white onion rings may be added.
As rice topping, chopped spring onion (sibuyas-dahon) may be sprinkled as garnishing.
The sauce with added few mashed anchovies and chopped white onion may be used as dip for Skyflakes biscuit, pan de sal, or biscucho.
The green mango loses some of its acidity when it is cooked, so it goes well with rice, okra or eggplant.

*Gurayan- Bisayan/ Karay-a for anchovy
*Dilis- Bisayan/ Cebuano and Tagalog for anchovy