Ang Pagtitiyaga ni Mona….nakakabilib na ay nakaka-inspire pa

Ang Pagtitiyaga ni Mona
…nakakabilib na ay nakaka-inspire pa
(para kay Mona Caburian-Pecson)
Ni Apolinario Villalobos

Mapalad ang isang pamilya sa pagkakaroon ng isang matiyagang ina. Palagay ko, angkop sa ganitong pagsasalarawan ang kilala kong ina, lalo pa at hindi pangkaraniwan ang kanyang mga pinagdaanan. Siya si Mona, maganda, matangkad, mestisahin, matalino, career woman, subalit dahil sa taglay na malalakas na katangian, animo ay pinangilagan ng mga lalaki na bantulot dahil hindi nila maabot ang kanyang kinalalagyan. Mataas din kasi ang kanyang puwesto sa isang malaking kumpanya. Umabot na siya sa gulang na sa batayan ng mga Pilipino ay yong sinasabing nalipasan na ng panahon, sa madaling salita, siya ay naging matandang dalaga. Subalit siya ay matiyaga sa paghintay ng kanyang magiging kabiyak na sasabayan niya sa pagtanda…

May dumating nga sa kanyang buhay, isang biyudo at may apat na anak. Sa simula, ay bantulot siya sa pagtanggap ng inaalay nitong pagmamahal, kaya pabirong sinabi kong dapat ay ipagpasalamat niya ang pagkaroon agad ng mga anak. At sa pagkakaroon naman ng sarili niyang anak na dadalhin niya sa kanyang sinapupunan, pinalakas ko ang loob niya sa pagsabi na yong iba nga lampas singkwenta na pero nabubuntis pa. Ang problema lang ay ang pagkaroon niya ng myoma na mabilis ang paglaki. Mabuti na lang at hindi malignant ito kaya hindi nakaapekto sa kanyang pagbuntis.

Nairaos ni Mona ang pagbuntis hanggang sa siya ay manganak, ng isang malusog na sanggol at walang ano mang kapansanan sa katawan na kinatakutan din niya dahil, ito yong tinuturing na “menopause baby”. Ang sabi ko naman sa kanya bilang pampalakas ng loob pa rin, siguradong matalino ang bata dahil matalino siya at ang kanyang asawa, at hindi ako nagkamali. Nang mag-aral ito ay matataas ang mga markang nakuha hanggang gumradweyt sa kursong pang-piloto ng eroplano.

Samantala, ang iba pa niyang mga “anak” na binuhusan din niya ng pagtitiyaga at pagmamahal ay natuto na ring kumilala sa kanya bilang tunay nilang ina. Maaayos ang kanilang buhay, at may mga apo na silang mag-asawa sa mga ito. Nagbunga ang patitiyaga ni Mona sa pag-ako ng mga responsibilidad bilang bagong ina ng mga unang anak ng kanyang asawa. Kasama ng kanyang pagmamahal ay ang pag-alala kung hindi sila nakakauwi ng maaga noong estudyante pa sila. Hindi rin siya nagpabaya sa pagbigay ng mga payo, lalo na sa mga babae.

Ang ipinakitang pagtitiyaga ni Mona ay patunay lamang sa kasabihang Pilipino na: “kung may tigaya….may nilaga”, at ang “nilaga” ay ang katatagan sa kabuuhan ng kanilang pamilya, kung saan ay umiiral ang pagmamahalan at kasiyahan.

Despite the Failure, Manny Pacquiao is still an inspiration…a true Christian in heart and spirit!

Despite the Failure, Manny Pacquiao
is still an inspiration…a true Christian in heart and spirit!
by Apolinario Villalobos

They say that after the Pacquiao-Mayweather fight, the luster of boxing as an exciting sport which many enthusiasts transposed into gambling will be gone. The sport could turn bloody and deadly which makes it exciting, as enthusiastic boxers exchange punches, each one hoping to land a decisive one to his opponent.

While many boxers find their way to the square platform ringed with rope for the money, Pacquiao uses nationalism and his love for the sport as his alibis. Despite those humble reasons, he clearly gained from his victories as he became a billionaire by Philippine standard. He made use of the fame from his victories to propel his way to the Philippine Congress. He was even respectfully accepted as a singer and a playing basketball coach, thanks to his eminence. And, from being a Catholic he was pulled to the fold of a Christian sect which of course became more popular. The people who are surrounding him became unquestionably rich, and undeniably, his company gave them popularity, too. In other words, Pacquiao gained but was pitifully used at the same time. After his latest fight with Mayweather, it is obvious that he is the loser all the way, a fact that not even his “humble” statements, albeit, betrayed sometimes by his defensive statements may not cover up a bit. Truth really hurts.

Pacquiao has only his too trusting own-self to blame for all that transpired in his bout with Mayweather. He was overconfident of his prowess, despite the shoulder injury that he incurred in the course of his training, and he also trusted his manager who did not declare the injury during the weigh-in. His honest admission of such injury during an interview after the fight hoping that it could justify his poor performance, cost him an immediately- filed class suit in Nevada, for a whooping damages of USD5M, with several more filed later.

Boxing fans all over the world felt cheated because Pacquiao did not deliver as expected, despite the excessively-priced tickets for the venue and pay per view on screen. They must have expected Pacquiao to maim Mayweather or turn him into a bloody pulp with his powerful right punch. And, the allegation that the information about his injury may have been leaked to the Mayweather camp, making the American boxer focus on the further weakening of his right shoulder by frequently hugging him followed by jabs to such particular part of his body, thereby, preventing him from delivering powerful right jabs… is another issue.

The enthusiastic quest of Pacquiao for fame has spelled his latest failure, for despite his physical inadequacy he went on with the fight. Many boxing enthusiasts are saying that he should have retired long time ago yet while he was perched on the pedestal of fame as the only boxer with many titles to his name, though with a few loses. He was lionized by sports magazines, admired even by Hollywood icons and equally famous boxers. He should have concentrated on his responsibilities as a Congressman to show that he is worthy of a higher post, or help budding boxers by putting up boxing gyms all over the country, or even put up chapels for his Christian congregation and pursue his spiritual advocacy.

Although there are gyms in Manila that bear his name on their signboards, some people doubt if he owns all of them, and if indeed he does, it is doubted if he visits them regularly. He neglected his duties as the Representative of Sarangani, one of the poor provinces, if not the poorest in the whole Philippines, and ironically, where he is also allegedly constructing the biggest and most luxurious resort in the country. His fellow congressmen justified his absences from sessions with “nationalism” as he was supposedly fighting for his countrymen and beloved country.

Unfortunately, his ventures seemingly show him as the kind of guy who wants to have everything in life all at once, a person without gratification. He spreads himself so thinly, that could dangerously crack his person, even beyond recovery. Sadly, if more legal cases against him will be filed in the United States and prosper to his disadvantage, many fans are concerned that the painfully- earned dollars from his boxing career may just be enough for the alleged damages and legal expenses. Will his “friends” help him, especially the opportunistic politicians who hover over him, hoping to be caught on cameras every time there are fights or interviews? I hope that his story will not be like those of other champion Filipino boxers who got intoxicated by fame that caused their painful fall with a loud thud.

Pacquiao has been perceived by his users as a fighting cock or a prized breed of dog that must be groomed well for competitions because of big amounts that they wager. Pacquiao did not feel this a bit as he got numbed by adulation. He was engrossed in the thought that he was being idolized and looked up to as inspiration of aspiring boxers which are really true. But he was blinded by his success so he failed to see the unfavorable side of his victorious streak. He also failed to comprehend the laws of life that say: a cup overflows as it can take just enough …and what goes up must come down. In other words, there is an end to everything in life as willed by God.

Honestly, I had been apprehensive about an injury that he will finally endure, but in his eardrum which was damaged during an earlier fight, and which will eventually affect his vision. Though I was right about the heavy damage, it happened in another part of his body – his right shoulder. The only persons who could authoritatively tell Pacquiao to stop his boxing career, in this regard, will be the surgeons who will perform the operation, but only if they find the damage in his right shoulder to be beyond repair. Will the family of Pacquiao pray for this as they want Manny to move around with still the same swagger, both shoulders moving in rhythm with his arms? For sure, if Pacquiao is assured of a total recovery in time by the surgeons, he will vehemently and stubbornly decide for a rematch to which Mayweather has already consented this early.

The damage being suffered by Pacquiao is too much that his fans should stop egging him to go on for a rematch with Mayweather. Waiting for him are legal suits filed in America which are more than enough to cause him sleepless nights. Besides, no boxer will ever expect a victory over a shrewd and “technically wise” fighter such as Mayweather with his evasive hugs, back steps and runs, unless a knock-out punch hits him clean and squarely.

Despite his latest failure, Pacquiao should be credited for his effort in showing how to fight decently by maintaining his utmost humility and clean style. Subtly, he softened Mayweather as shown by the absence of arrogance in the latter’s statements every time he was interviewed before and after the fight. If boxing historians will be fair enough to Pacquiao, they should acknowledge his restrained insistence to maintain sportsmanship which should be the essence of boxing. He has been setting instances on how to maintain a friendly mood after the physically straining and painful competition, by inviting his opponents to his hometown for a visit, with all expenses covered by him. If that is not a friendly gesture, I do not know what it should be called.

As a countryman and avid fan, I sincerely pray for the fast recovery of Manny Pacquiao. He may have been waylaid by his overly trusting attitude, kindness, and most especially his zealous desire to rise from his humble beginning. His unwavering endurance to fight poverty should inspire us to move on and hurdle the challenges along the way. For me, he is the same Manny Pacquiao with a tiger look, an innocent smile, hearty laugh and a husky voice like any other country singer around; the same guy who struggles with English to show that he is trying his best to recoup the lost time that should have been spent in classroom, but denied him due to utter poverty; and, the same guy who prays before and after a fight. He showed us how to love unconditionally, as besides showering his mother and family with it, he extended the same to his father who abandoned them while he and his siblings were young, leaving his mother to work night and day just to keep them alive. For me, he is a true Christian in heart and spirit, selflessly compassionate, and who does not harbor hate in his heart!

Let Me Write Again

“Let me write again”
By SherryAnna Issa de la Cruz

I used to write (in simplest way I can)
I found it a way in which I express myself
I write to inspire others when I am happy;
I write to speak my deep thoughts especially when I am sad;
even when I don’t have anything to do, I write to keep myself busy
…time passed! I can’t exactly bring to mind why I stopped writing
But now, I want to write again!
Let me express the inmost part of me which I think I should
I know I have to, before this unexpressed feeling will ruin me!

Dapat Ituring na Inspirasyon ang mga Hadlang sa Pagsisikap

Dapat Ituring na Inspirasyon
ang mga Hadlang sa Pagsisikap
Ni Apolinario Villalobos

Para sa isang taong nagsisikap ng taos sa puso, ang mga balakid na nakabalandra sa kanyang landas na tinatahak ay itinuturing niyang ispirasyon. Ang mga karaniwang itinuturing na hadlang sa pagsisikap ay kahirapan, pagkawala ng mga mahal sa buhay, at pagkakaroon ng pisikal na kapansanan.

Marami na tayong nakitang mga taong nakakapagpinta o nakakapagdidibuho pero walang mga kamay, kaya ang ginagamit ay mga daliri sa mga paa o bibig na pang-ipit ng paint brush. Merong mga naka-wheelchair na nagtitinda ng mga kendi at sigarilyo, may mga nagtatrabaho sa mga pagawaan ng piyesa na naka-wheelchair din, may Olympian runner na ang gamit ay mga artipisyal na paa, mayroon ding mga swimmer na iisa ang kamay.

Nagulat ako isang araw nang sa paghinto ng sinasakyan kong dyip sa kanto ng Aguinaldo highway at Niyog, sa Bacoor, Cavite, ay may lumapit na binatilyo at nagsisi-senyas sa mga taong nakatayo at nag-aabang ng masasakyan at itinuturo ang dyip na sinasakyan kong maluwag pa. Barker pala siya o tagatawag ng pasahero ….pero pipi! Sa halip na sumigaw upang makatawag ng pansin, ang gamit niya ay mga kamay na kinakaway. At, ang nakakatuwa pa ay panay ang kanyang ngiti, kaya ang mga pasahero ay natutuwa, lalo na ang mga driver ng jeepney na hindi nag-aatubili sa pagbigay sa kanya ng maraming barya bilang suhol.

Hindi kalayuan sa nasabing lugar ay may isa namang pilay, iisa ang paa at ang saklay na ginagamit ay isang ordinaryong sanga ng kahoy, ang lumalapit sa mga jeepney na humihinto upang magtinda ng sigarilyo at kendi. Kapag naka-stop na ang traffic light, siya ay lumalapit sa mga jeep. Hindi awa ang nararamdaman ng mga tao para sa kanya kundi pagkamangha at pagkatuwa, kaya dahil sa tindi ng kanyang pagsisikap ay marami ang bumibili ng kanyang paninda.

Maliban sa mga nabanggit kong may kapansanan, ang hindi ko maaaring kalimutan ay ang mga batang nakatira sa mga barung-barong sa Baseco compound at bangketa na nakilala ko, na sa kabila ng kahirapan ay nagpipilit na pumasok sa klase. Upang magkaroon ng baon, gumigising sila sa madaling araw upang mag-ipon ng mga reject o itinapon na mga gulay sa Divisoria upang maibenta hanggang ika-anim ng umaga, kung kaylan ay saka pa lang sila magbibihis ng pampasok sa klase.

Ang nag-top sa 2014 Bar Exam para sa mga abogado, si Irene Mae Alcobilla ay biktima ng bagyong Yolanda at nawalan ng mga mahal sa buhay. Sa kabila ng lahat ay hindi siya nawalan ng pag-asa at sa tulong ng mga kapatid niyang OFW ay nairaos ang kanyang pag-aaral at naging topnotcher pa sa pagsusulit.

Ang mga pagsubok sa buhay ay hindi dapat ituring na balakid sa tinatahak nating daan. Dapat silang ituring na inspirasyon at lakas upang lalo pa tayong magpursige sa pakikibaka upang magkaroon ng maayos na pamumuhay sa abot ng makakaya. At, sa halip na sisihin ang Diyos kung bakit tayo binibigyan nito, dapat ay magpasalamat tayo dahil nalilinang ng mga bininibigay niyang “pahirap” ang ating pagkatao upang lalo tayong tumibay.

Ang mga nabanggit ko ay sinabi ko rin sa isang anak ng kumpare ko na walang ganang magpatuloy sa pag-aaral gayong mayaman naman sila. Ang dahilan lamang niya ay ang pagtampo niya sa kanyang ama na ayaw siyang ibili ng kotse!

The Pushcart that went Far…this is about the Karitun Klasrum of the Dynamic Teen Company

The Pushcart that Went Far

…this is about the KARITUN KLASRUM

Of the DYNAMIC TEEN COMPANY

By Apolinario Villalobos

As of yet, few knows about the Karitun Klasrum, because the reference is the offshoot of the more popular “kariton classroom” but had to be tagged yet with the name, Efren Peῆaflorida to be recalled. Also, few people know that their group is called DYNAMIC TEEN COMPANY (DTC). For the non-Filipinos, “kariton” is the Pilipino for wooden three or four-wheeled pushcart.

Efren Peῆaflorida hugged the limelight when he won the CNN Hero of the Year Award in 2009 because of his low-profile effort in helping street kids in Cavite City gain knowledge from what meager resources he and his group piled on a pushcart that they, yes, push around the coastal city. They have favorite shady spots where they park their pushcart, so that the kids need not look for them. One of these spots is in the cemetery which was once featured on TV, during which Cris “Kesz” Valdez was shown, demonstrating to the street kids the proper brushing of teeth and washing of hands.

Now on Kesz, he was a neglected child who at the young age of two was forced to scavenge in dumps for junks that can be sold to support the needs of his drug-dependent father. At a young teen age, he was forced to leave his family and lived on his own, finding security in the stillness of the cemetery where he slept. He was adopted by Hernan Manalaysay of the Club 8586, a group of evangelists until he found his way towards the comfort of the Dynamic Teen Company. Kesz won the International Children’s Peace Award in 2012, given at The Hague, Amsterdam.

The Dynamic Teen Company has a project at Amadeo, Cavite, a school that they named Akademus Amadeus. It shall cater to students who find it hard to pursue their studies in the city because of the expenses involving high tuition fees, board, food, and transportation. Construction is on a fast phase and at this stage, the school library is almost finished. According to Ms. Angel Neri, who heads the DTC Operations, and at the same time serves as the secretary/assistant of Efren, book donations are welcome to fill the shelves of the library.

The Akademus Amadeus can be found at 8586 Halang-Aingaro Road, Barangay Halang Banay-banay, Amadeo, Cavite. Book donations can be sent to Efren Peῆaflorida c/o Mrs. Adela Monton or Mr. Mediacio Monton at the school address.

Aside from the Akademus project, the DTC still pursues its objective of establishing 50 more Karitun Klasrum in areas where they are needed. For more details on the ongoing projects of the group, interested parties can get in touch with them through telephone, (046) 4315263 and look for Ms. Angel Neri. In case she is out, a volunteer who answers the phone can help in providing the initial information. The DTC is located at 188 J. Miranda St., Caridad, Cavite City.

Use tags, Efren Florida, Cris Valdez or Dynamic Teen Company, for a quick search in the cyberspace to know more about their advocacy.

Getting Inspired by Self-Encouragement

Getting Inspired  by Self-Encouragement

By Apolinario  Villalobos

 

 

To be inspired by what we accomplish through our own effort should not be misconstrued as being narcissistic.  Making us realize that we can do some things without being dependent on others should give us more impetus to strive more, however, we should always remember not to be buoyed by arrogance.  To develop the trait of self-encouragement in us is not easy. If we are used to the hovering of our parents since childhood, our personality becomes soft, so that along the way of our life, even a simple impediment makes us falter.

 

Earning accomplishments in life through self-encouragement is like saving coins in a piggy bank. The increasing weight of the piggy bank because of the accumulated coins encourages us to drop more through the slot. Squandering some saved coins, is like putting to use some of what we have accomplished into useless endeavor. This can be avoided if we will be always reminded by an old adage, that  we cannot turn back the hands of time, and as I may add, so do mistakes committed that cannot be undone. Care is then very necessary to prevent this.

 

Meanwhile, successful people driven by self-encouragement can tremendously inspire others, especially, today which is smarting from the frustrating steady rise of unemployment. A  person suffers from disappointment if he fails to land a job after his first attempt, and in this situation, it is important that the person should convince himself that he is facing one of the realities of life – cutthroat competition in applying for a job, for which persistence can help. He must admit that so that he can do something to have counter moves or strategies.

 

To make self-encouragement work, some people switch to other fields of endeavor, some of which are a far cry from those that are stated in their diploma . There was a time in the past when the most in demand job was for nurses to fill up vacancies in European hospitals and caregiving institutions. There was a mass switching of course from medicine to nursing, and even those with license in medicine, went back to school to desperately take a course in nursing.  This effort somehow helped, even at the expense of pride – imagine a doctor, willing to work as nurse or a caregiver. As the ultimate goal is financial gain, those who attained it, thought that they did just the right thing.

 

Self-encouragement is a necessary element for survival.  The will to have a useful life after retirement or after having been partially incapacitated by an accident, needs even a bit of self-encouragement. In this instance, the government does its part by offering programs for senior citizens and persons with disability (PWD’s). In this situation, self-encouragement as a force is more crucial than those coming from other people. The strength to move on should first come from within a person. External strength becomes useful to further prop him up steadily.

 

 

 

 

Getting Inspired by Self-Encouragement

Getting Inspired by Self-Encouragement
By Apolinario Villalobos

To be inspired by what we accomplish on our own effort should be not misconstrued as being narcissistic. Making us realize that we can do some things without being dependent on others should give us more impetus to strive more, however, we should always remember not to be buoyed by arrogance. To develop the trait of self-encouragement in us is not easy. If we are used to the hovering of our parents since childhood, our personality becomes soft, so that along the way of our life, even a simple impediment makes us falter.

Earning accomplishments in life through self-encouragement is like saving coins in a piggy bank. The increasing weight of the piggy bank because of the accumulated coins encourages us to drop more through the slot. Squandering some saved coins, is like putting to use some of what we have accomplished into useless endeavor. This can be avoided if we will be always reminded by an old adage, that we cannot turn back the hands of time, and as I may add, so do mistakes committed that cannot be undone. Care is then very necessary to prevent this.

Meanwhile, successful people driven by self-encouragement can tremendously inspire others, especially, today which is smarting from the frustrating steady rise of unemployment. A person suffers from disappointment if he fails to land a job after his first attempt, and in this situation, it is important that the person should convince himself that he is facing one of the realities of life – cutthroat competition in applying for a job, for which persistence can help. He must accept that so that he can do something to have counter moves or strategies.

To make self-encouragement work, some people switch to other fields of endeavor, some of which are a far cry from those that are stated in their diploma . There was a time in the past when the most in demand job was for nurses to fill up vacancies in European hospitals and caregiving institutions. There was a mass switching of course from medicine to nursing, and even those with license in medicine, went back to school to desperately take a course in nursing. This effort somehow helped, even at the expense of pride – imagine a doctor, willing to work as nurse or a caregiver. As the ultimate goal is financial gain, those who attained it, thought that they did just the right thing.

Self-encouragement is a necessary element for survival. The will to have a useful life after retirement or after having been partially incapacitated by an accident, needs even a bit of self-encouragement. In this instance, the government does its part by offering programs for senior citizens and persons with disability (PWD’s). In this situation, self-encouragement as a force is more crucial than those coming from other people. The strength to move on should first come from within a person. External strength becomes useful to further prop him up steadily.

Getting Inspired by Self-Encouragement

Getting Inspired  by Self-Encouragement

By Apolinario  Villalobos

 

To be inspired by what we accomplish on our own effort should be not misconstrued as being narcissistic.  Making us realize that we can do some things without being dependent on others should give us more impetus to strive more, however, we should always remember not to be buoyed by arrogance.  To develop the trait of self-encouragement in us is not easy. If we are used to the hovering of our parents since childhood, our personality becomes soft, so that along the way of our life, even a simple impediment makes us falter.

Earning accomplishments in life through self-encouragement is like saving coins in a piggy bank. The increasing weight of the piggy bank because of the accumulated coins encourages us to drop more through the slot. Squandering some saved coins, is like putting to use some of what we have accomplished into useless endeavor. This can be avoided if we will be always reminded by an old adage, that  we cannot turn back the hands of time, and as I may add, so do mistakes committed that cannot be undone. Care is then very necessary to prevent this.

Meanwhile, successful people driven by self-encouragement can tremendously inspire others, especially, today which is smarting from the frustrating steady rise of unemployment. A  person suffers from disappointment if he fails to land a job after his first attempt, and in this situation, it is important that the person should convince himself that he is facing one of the realities of life – cutthroat competition in applying for a job, for which persistence can help. He must accept that so that he can do something to have counter moves or strategies.

To make self-encouragement work, some people switch to other fields of endeavor, some of which are a far cry from those that are stated in their diploma . There was a time in the past when the most in demand job was for nurses to fill up vacancies in European hospitals and caregiving institutions. There was a mass switching of course from medicine to nursing, and even those with license in medicine, went back to school to desperately take a course in nursing.  This effort somehow helped, even at the expense of pride – imagine a doctor, willing to work as nurse or a caregiver. As the ultimate goal is financial gain, those who attained it, thought that they did just the right thing.

Self-encouragement is a necessary element for survival.  The will to have a useful life after retirement or after having been partially incapacitated by an accident, needs even a bit of self-encouragement. In this instance, the government does its part by offering programs for senior citizens and persons with disability (PWD’s). In this situation, self-encouragement as a force is more crucial than those coming from other people. The strength to move on should first come from within a person. External strength becomes useful to further prop him up steadily.

 

 

 

 

The Day Mother Died

The Day Mother Died

By Apolinario B. Villalobos

Less than a year

Of our father’s death

Our dear mother had to go

My siblings and I

Seemed lost

But is there anything

We can do?

Young at twelve to understand

Friends consoled me

Patted my back

Told me “we are just around”

We will not leave you

Somehow the pain was lessened

But for such a loss

Pain was deeply rooted

That my heart bled

At the thought

Though tears

I cease to shed.

(My first year in high school barely started when our mother died. When she was finally brought home, I was still in school. Not knowing what happened I was surprised to find family friends and some people I did not know crowding our yard. When I saw the remains of my mother, I did not know what to do until finally, tears rolled down my eyes. Without father and mother, the four of us were practically left on our own. Next to me, our youngest sister was still in grade five. Despite what happened, we struggled on, but this time with more difficulty. Trickles of financial help came but barely enough for our daily survival. There were days when we would skip breakfast. Finishing high school in top five of the graduating class entitled me to a partial scholarship in college but still I begged the Irish school priest/director to give me a job in school just like my elder brother who was already a “working student” with allowance. I was after the monthly allowance. Out of pity the kindly priest gave in to my insistence. While in second year college, I tutored two sisters, and as I did it during lunchtime, I practically skipped my midday meal. While in third year until my fourth year, I accepted a weekend job. Out of patience, I finally finished college from a Catholic  parochial school. It was a tortuous journey. But I am thankful for it as it toughened me more… made me stronger.)