Ang Sobrang Sexual Attraction ay Nakamamatay o Nakawawala ng Katinuan ng Pag-iisip

ANG SOBRANG SEXUAL ATTRACTION AY NAKAMAMATAY

O NAKAWAWALA NG KATINUAN NG PAG-IISIP

Ni Apolinario Villalobos

 

May pelikulang Ingles noon na ang title ay “Fatal Attraction”. Hindi ko napanood dahil nanghinayang ako sa pambayad pero sa mga kuwento ng mga kaibigan kong nakapanood, ito ay tungkol sa ugali ng tao na nawawala sa sarili dahil sa sobrang nararamdamang pagmamahal sa iba, kaya kung tatagalugin ang titulo, ito ay magiging, “Nakakamatay na Pagka-akit”. Maaaring ito ay magreresulta sa kamatayan ng nagmamahal o sa minamahal. Maaaring magpapakamatay ang desperadong nagmamahal kapag siya ay iniwan. Maaari ding patayin ng isang tao ang sobra niyang minamahal na balak siyang iwanan upang pumunta sa iba.

 

Ang nakakabahala ay ang epekto din nitong damdamin na nagpapawala sa katinuan ng taong nagmamahal….nawawala siya sa sarili dahil iniwan ng minamahal. Yong iba ay nakakalimutan na ang pag-ayos sa sarili, nalululong din sila sa alak o droga, at ang iba pa ay nagiging baliw. May alam akong natanggal sa trabaho dahil iniwan ng nobyo….palagi na kasing late kung pumasok at amoy alak pa. Yong isang babae rin ay pansamantala o temporarily na nawalan ng katinuan sa pag-iisip ng mamatay ang lalaking sobra niyang minahal…mabuti na lang at medyo nakaka-recover na ngayon dahil nililibang ko sa pamamagitan ng pagturo sa paggawa ng tula. Yong isa namang hindi naka-recover ay naging baliw na talaga kaya kung minsan ay naghuhubad sa kalye…patay na siya ngayon. Pero noong buhay pa at natitiyempuhan kong naghuhubad sa kalye ay nagtatakip na lang ako ng mga mata.

 

Maraming pelikula, na ang tema ay tungkol sa paggamit ng seksuwalidad upang makapangalap ng mga impormasyon ng ibang bansa at ang pinaka-popular ay ang kuwento ni “Mata Hari”, isang seksing espiya. Okey lang sana kung ang paggamit ng seksuwalidad ay upang makatulong sa ibang tao o bansa…ibig sabihin ay nagsakripisyo ang nagsangkalang ng kanyang puri dahil sa magandang layunin. Subalit ang hindi maganda ay ang basta na lang ma-attract ang isang babae, halimbawa, sa mga lalaki dahil lang sa nararamdaman niyang kati sa katawan at higit sa lahat ay kung naggamitan sila ng mga kaulayaw niya upang makapanloko ng iba. Ito yong sinasabi na “scratch mine and I will scratch yours”, opps! “Scratch my back, and I will scratch yours”, pala….sorry!. Sa nasabing sitwasyon, ang mga nagkamutan ay pare-parehong nakarating sa glorya, superduper pa ang kinitang limpak-limpak na kadatungan!…abangan ang susunod na mga kabanata….

 

Note: kadatungan – plenty of money

What Excesses can Breed

What Excesses can Breed

By Apolinario Villalobos

Anything that is beneficial but taken in excess can be lethal, and anything that is done with good intention, though, in excess can be vicious.

Drugs are supposed to prevent or cure diseases, but when taken in excess can result to unexpected death of a patient, that is why some of these cannot just be bought over the counter of pharmacies, as they need proper prescription from authorized medical practitioners. On the other hand, an overdose of food can cause obesity which can lead to diseases. Drinking water in excess may affect the proper functioning of the heart that is why one of the worst thing that can happen to anyone, is the unchecked water retention of the body.

Too much love can mean pampering that could result to the “spoiling” of the person being loved. It can also drive one to commit a crime of passion because of the fatal attraction that developed. And, worst, it can lead the weak of emotion to the verge of insanity. The same is true with kindness which can result to the abuse of the kind-hearted. Along this line, too much familiarity among friends could develop abuse, too, on the part of the ones with weak discipline, disposition, and who are naturally selfish.

It is not bad to be hard working, but abusing the body to the point of exhaustion could mean fatigue and if left unchecked could be fatal, too. Also, in a group that is expected to work as a team, those working hard, may be abused by the indolent members who may become overly dependent. That is why, for the sake of teamwork, it is important that roles are played fairly.

As to the expression of faith, those who manifest it with utmost sincerity according to what their religion says, is admirable. However, to be boisterous about it, and be proud about their belief that only they have the right to be saved, really stinks. It is revolting to see a faithful with outstretched hands and who walks on his or her knees from the door of the church to the altar, or pretend that he or she is overcome by the “spirit” while praying as shown by his or her fainting or uncontrolled shaking body…a scene that can be comical for others. All these overdose of faith is fanaticism.

Too much freedom in a nation can breed abuse on the part of inconsiderate and undisciplined constituents. And, too much discipline instilled in a person can make him too “sterile” and oblivious to the imperfect, albeit, normal actuations of others.

The world needs air and rain, but too much of them, results to typhoons and floods. The same is true with the cool and immaculate snow, as too much of it, results to snowstorm. The wildlife has its own way of “moderation”. And, it seems that lesser creatures are more intelligent than man in observing such discipline. I have seen film footages of different kinds of wild animals milling around drinking holes where the strong are shown chasing the weak with the obvious intention of enjoying the latter as dinner. After the overpowering animals have had their fill, they back off and leave the rest of the packs.

Greed and selfishness are innate in man’s character, but should be manifested in moderation to prevent exploitation of others that could result to their suffering. Unfortunately, it does not happen in politics where greedy officials are not satisfied with what they may have already stolen from the government coffer, and which could already ensure them of a comfortable retirement. They practically, want everything by all means….not only money but lifetime power!