Ang Droga sa Pilipinas at Pakikialam ng European Union at Amerika

Ang Droga sa Pilipinas at Pakikialam ng European Union at Amerika

Ni Apolinario Villalobos

 

Noong unang panahon…pinaghatian ng ilang bansa sa Europe ang buong mundo. Nag-unahan sila sa pagkamkam ng mga isla kahit may mga katutubo nang nanirahan sa mga ito. Kasama sa listahan ng mgangangamkam ang England, Holland, Russia, Germany, Hungary. Kabilang sa kanila ang mga bansa sa Mediterranean na tulad ng Espanya at Portugal na gumamit naman ng mapagkunwaring misyong ispirituwal na ang simbolo ay krus. Bandang huli na sumali ang Estador Unidos na binuo ng mga estadong nagbuklod-buklod. Ang mga “Amerikano” na bumuo ng malaking komunidad sa “New World” na ang bukana ay California, ay galing sa England, Pransiya, Germany, Holland at iba,  upang takasan ang paghihigpit at pagmamalupit ng kani-kanilang hari at reyna. Sa pangangamkam ng mga Amerikano sa dinayo nilang mga palanas at gubat ay naitaboy nila ang mga katutubo na tinawag nilang “Indian”. Ang tawag na yan ang popular na ginamit noong unang panahon sa pagtukoy sa mga katutubo ng mga kinamkam na mga isla….kasama na diyan ang mga katutubo sa kapuluan ng Pilipinas na tinawag na “Indio” ng mga Kastila.

 

Sa pag-usad ng panahon naging maunlad ang mga bansang mangangamkam dahil sa “industrialization” na ang pinaka-pundasyon o mitsa ay ang paggamit ng “fossil fuel” o mga panggatong na nakaimbak sa ilalim ng lupa tulad ng uling at langis. Dahil sa sobrang kasakiman ng mga mangangamkan, hindi nakontrol ang paggamit ng mga panggatong hanggang masira ang bahagi ng kalawakan na nagbibigay proteksiyon sa mundo (ozone layer) laban sa matinding init ng araw – napunit dahil sa carbon dioxide na ibinuga ng mga factory o pagawaan. Nadamay ang mga maliliit na bansang (third world countries) walang kamuwang-muwang sa “industrialization”. Sa kasamaang palad, ang mga “third world” countries na nagsisimula pa lang umarangkada ay ayaw nang pagamitin ng “fossil fuels” sa pamamagitan ng mga mapanlinlang na “treaties” o kasunduan sa pagitan nila at mga mangangamkam na malalaking bansa, upang mailigtas kuno ang kalikasan….ganoong ang mga hinayupak na mangangamkam na mga bansang ito ang sumira!

 

Hindi lang sa paggamit ng mga “fossil fuel” nakikialam ang malalaking bansang mangangamkam sa mga bansang maliliit lalo na ang mga nasa Timog-Silangang Asya, kundi pati na rin sa pagpapatakbo ng pamahalaan. Ang isang halimbawa ay ang pakikialam ng European Union sa mga ginagawa ni Duterte upang matigil ang droga sa Pilipinas. Ibinunyag ni Duterte na hindi na ligtas sa epekto ng droga ang gobyerno dahil maraming nagtatrabaho dito, lalo na sa hanay ng kapulisan ay lulong na rin sa droga. Ang mga barangay na siyang pinaka-pundasyon (foundation) ng lipunan ay nasa impluwensiya na rin ng bisyo dahil maraming Barangay Chairmen ay may kinalaman na rin dito.

 

Sa Europe ay okey lang na maglipana ang mga durogista dahil suportado ng gobyerno ang pagpapagamot, sa Pilipinas ay iba ang sitwasyon dahil gamot nga lang sa pagta-tae o LBM at lagnat ay mahal na…paano pa kung ang pag-uusapan ay mga rehab center na mga high-class na ospital lang ang mayroon…ang tinatawag nilang “basement”? Mabuti nga at sa pag-upo ni Duterte ay binigyan agad niya ang problemang ito ng pansin kaya may magagamit nang mga rehab centers sa Davao, Bukidnon at Nueva Ecija.

 

Malaking balakid sa pagbabago ng Piilipinas ang pakikialam ng European Union at Amerika na ang mga pinaghihinalaang “sulsol” ay mga Pilipino rin na natigil ang milyo-milyong kinikita nang maupo si Duterte!

 

Masasabing nagsanib-puwersa ang dalawang uri ng demonyo sa mundo – ang mangangamkam at mapaglinlang na mga mauunalad na bansa sa Europe, pati Amerika, at ang mga demonyong Pilipino na ang gusto ay patuloy na nabubuhay at pagala-gala sa Pilipinas ang mga adik, drug pusher at mga drug lords, pati mga corrupt sa gobyerno!

 

 

 

My Great Friend, Jimmy…altruistic to the end

My Great Friend, Jimmy…altruistic to the end

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

When we are at the lowest ebb of our life that include days we spend in bed due to an ailment, the natural thing to do is for us to exert an effort  to show our best. But there are some who make cover-ups, apprehensive that others will know their situation. By being honest, however, does not mean that help is being solicited. We can even gain respect and admiration, by showing others our endurance during such trying times. The respect and admiration, as the fruits of our effort are sweeter, than the casual reaction from others whose view of our real situation is obstructed by hypocrisy.

 

Jimmy was a friend who used to hold a high executive position in a trading company. Even before I started blogging, he was well-informed about my small projects in Tondo and Divisoria as he was a regular donor. We met at the Mary Johnson Hospital in Tondo many years back, where he visited a staff of his office, while I visited the daughter of a friend from Baseco compound who was confined due to dengue. His sincere friendship punctuated by his giving me his business card made me divulge to him my real identity, but implored him to keep it to himself. I explained that I do not reveal my identity to those whom I extend a little help that I could afford, so that I had been known to them by another name.

 

He failed to save much needed cash for his retirement because much of what he earned went to friends who sought his financial help.  To make the story short, when he resigned due to a prolonged ailment, he was left with an almost depleted savings. Every time I visited him, we would talk about his friends who became successful in their jobs. His statements were always ended with “ I am thankful that they made it…”. Truth is, he had been instrumental for their success. Some were his subordinates whom he pushed with deserved promotions and guaranteed referrals. Some were given financial assistance as a start-up for a small business.

 

The cancer in his bones resulted to his losing weight considerably which practically changed his physical appearance. Despite the transformation, he could still muster a smile, as if nothing had changed. He was financially handicap, but he did not cover it up.  When he became bedridden, the first to go was his car, followed by his studio-type condo, after which his nephew accommodated him in his home in Malabon. His wife with whom he had no child, left him for a Chinese boyfriend she met in a casino.

 

Jimmy gained much respect because of what he showed, aside from reaping admiration from neighbors and friends who visited him daily. The disease that physically emaciated him did not change his image that had been exuding an aura of contentment.  He passed away two months ago (January 2017). After his cremation, I was invited by his nephew and his wife for a dinner at their home after which an envelope was handed to me. It contained PHP3,730.00, balance of his savings and with it was his passbook. Outside the envelope was his simply handwritten note, “God be with you always in all you do”.

Pride Closes the Mind

Pride Closes the Mind

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

 

Some people think that accepting the mistake they made is humiliating. They also think that people who give them advice are intruding into their intellectual domain. Worse, these same people who are buoyed by money and intoxicated by success think that they are above the rest of humanity…and, they just cannot imagine themselves looking back or looking down to where they came from. Blame pride, arrogance, conceit.

 

Self-esteem should be maintained despite material gains. But it should not be tainted with

pride. Moving on is part of life and those who gain by dint of hard work should compose themselves as successes are gained along the way. Studies show that one reason why some successful people refuse to look back or cut off their relationship with former colleagues is their fear that the latter would ask for a share of what they gained. These people not only refuse to look back but they also close their mind.

 

Those blinded with pride may not only move on, but up – climbing the ladder of society to find a new environment where they can move with ease, thanks to their new glittering trappings and money. Among newfound friends, they open themselves up. But since money is not everything in life and relationship with newfound friends is not deeply rooted, happiness is short-lived. As these people grow old they may realize that late parties, golfing with rich buddies, weekend jaunts to first class resorts, dinners in 5-star hotels, etc. have become boring. They start to long for childhood friends, relatives in barrios and slums. But they are ashamed to make a turnaround and trace back their steps to where they came from. And, since, they cannot bring along their wealth with them when they bid the world goodbye, their death could be lonely.

 

(I based this blog on the story of a couple who lives in an affluent village in Makati City, Philippines. Between the two, I could surmise that the wife should be blamed for their situation now. The wife is arrogant and obviously has the hand in all their affairs. Both of them came from Davao City where they also earned their bachelor’s degree from a prestigious Catholic educational institution in that city. They met in Manila while she was working as a secretary in a pharmaceutical firm and he was with a travel agency. After getting married, the wife resigned from her job and went into direct selling of beauty products which prospered. The husband also resigned from his job and joined his wife but expanded their line of products. They were blessed with 2 children. It was while they were enjoying the fruit of their hard work that they almost forgot about their families and friends back in Davao city. When at first, they were helping their respective family, later on they stopped, thinking that their families are milking them of their hard-earned money. Actually, the idea came from the wife who also said that those in Davao should also work hard like them (this bit of information was given to me by the husband, confidentially). In time, communication was cut off. Their two children are both in the United States now with their own families. With advancing age, he is 81 and she is 79, they are now full of regrets. I was referred to them by a friend as they want their “success”  story written down into a book. But I suggested to them that for their story to have a happy ending, they should swallow their pride and go back to Davao to mend the broken relationship with their families which they did. But whether they did it with sincerity or not, I can never tell.)

Companionship and Marriage

Companionship and Marriage

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

“Marriage” for the Roman Catholic Church is founded on the principle surrounding the opposite sexes and this should be respected. Those who do not agree should join other religious communities that have a different belief, But for me, the ceremony is not even a guarantee that the relationship of heterosexual couple pledging, “till death do us part” could really last that long. In this regard, legal separation and divorce have been conceived. I believe that love is the essence of the lifetime companionship that applies even to those with same sex. Marriage is man-made and sometimes, even performed for convenience. On the other hand, commitment resulting from companionship with mutual respect and understanding, is naturally developed and gets “ripe” in time between partners, hence, become deeply-imbedded in their emotion.

 

If the Philippine government will not legalize “same- sex marriage”, the LGBT community should not feel dejected as the members can just go on living together…nobody can stop them from doing so. Meanwhile, they have the choice to cover themselves with legal documents as regards their common properties and other expectations. It should be noted that even affluent heterosexual couples sign documents that stipulate conditions about their properties before their wedding ceremony. As regards their family that would include children later on, they can resort to adoption of blood relations, such as nephews or nieces, or even offspring of strangers, and this is where orphanages and state welfare agency, such as the Department of Social Welfare (DSW) come in.

 

Members of the LGBT community should open their mind to the hurting fact that not all nations understand their situation. This is the reason why same-sex couples resort to living in countries where their relationship is legally recognized. Fortunately, to date, many Filipinos recognize same-sex relationship that gave rise to many Christian Churches in the country, and which are extending utmost compassion and understanding to it.

 

Ceremony that would bind the relationship may still be performed to formalize the commitments of the same- sex couple, but should not include or imply anything that got to do with that of the traditional Roman Catholic Church’s, though, the Universal Lord may still be invoked, as witness.

 

Finally, for couples, respect to each other is most vital for a lasting relationship….love is born out of respect. LUST manifests the absence of such.

 

Kung Mawawala si Duterte

Kung Mawawala si Duterte…

Ni Apolinario Villalobos

 

Kung mawawala si Duterte

Sigurarong lulundag sa tuwa si Lenny

Baka magsayaw pa sila ng Trillanes ng “watusi”-

Puwet lang ang ikinikimbot, sa itaas nakaturo ang daliri.

 

Kung mawawala si Duterte

Droga ay iiral uli at magiging grabe

Dahil mawawala na ang tinik at balakid na tao

Na sana ay pag-asa ng Pilipinas, may matigas na kamao.

 

Kung si Duterte ay mawawala

Mga naka-sotana ay sisirko sa tuwa

Lalo na ang mga obispong sa pansin ay matakaw

Na hindi malaman kung ugali’y maka-Diyos o halimaw.

 

Kung si Duterte ay mawawala

Anong mangyayari sa kawawang bansa?

Magdasal!…nang hindi mangibabaw ang kasamaan

Na hinahasik ng mga drug lords at ganid sa pamahalaan!

 

Notes:

Watusi – popular dance during the ‘70s, the “shindig era”

Ikinikimbot – shake

Iiral – proliferate

Kamao – fist

Hinahasik – spread

Obispo – tagalong word for the Roman Catholic “bishop”, SOME with questionable character

Ganid – greedy

 

 

An Encounter with the Famous, World-Class and Self-made Filipino Chef, BOY LOGRO

An Encounter with the Famous, World-Class and

Self-made Filipino Chef, BOY LOGRO

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

Foodies who are fond of following the TV show of Boy Logro, view him as a humorous guy as he concocts dishes on the spot, handling ingredients with his bare hands. His humor is innate as he could likewise concoct jokes on the spot to jibe with those coming from his guest. Although, dialogs are supposed to be scripted as required in such kind of sitcoms, it is obvious that many of his lines are extemporaneously delivered, thereby, adding spice to any situation.

 

As I am a foodie, myself, but with interest limited only to information due to my curiosity, I would view the shows of Boy Logro untiringly if I have the chance. But, my greatest chance of viewing this remarkable personality was when I encountered him at the PAL Mabuhay Lounge of Davao International Airport when both of us took the same flight to Manila. When he entered the lounge, he was with an airport security staff, so I presumed that he could be some kind of an important person, as I did not recognize him at first due to the baseball cap that he was wearing. I also thought he had no carry-on luggage, until I heard him tell the security staff to hand over the small backpack that the latter was carrying.

 

After doing my uploads, I approached him and unabashedly introduce myself in the Visayan dialect as I was interested about what he’s doing, especially, simple Filipino dishes done with readily available ingredients. When he learned that I plan to write something about him to inspire Filipinos who aspire to become chef, he gave me his trademark grin, complete with a twinkle in his eyes.

 

Boy Logro is a big contrast to other Filipino chefs with shows on TV who are using imported ingredients and use foreign names for their dishes to give an impression of being…what else, but “foreign” which is another offshoot of “stateside” mentality of many Filipinos. He is very proud about his “rags to riches” story, starting his career as a simple kitchen helper in a hotel in Manila. His profound interest could have encouraged his employer to trust him with a la carte dishes. With nothing but courage and a few pesos in his pocket, he grabbed opportunities that came his way in other countries where he became famous. A national TV staion is currently banking on his popularity to keep its viewers’ eyes glued to the screen every Sunday.

 

I left him in the lounge when I went to the pre-departure area to see another friend who was taking another flight out of Davao, but gave him my facebook name. When I opened my laptop to upload my blogs and check my facebook, I saw the “add request” of Pablo “Boy Logro” which I immediately confirmed. I promised him a full-length blog that I am sure can help serious researchers who access my other sites…those who are interested about “success” and “humility”.

Boy Logro