Kabungsuan Yadao Makilala…fallen but not forgotten

KABUNGSUAN YADAO MAKILALA

…fallen but not forgotten

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

After leaving Tacurong without even attending our college graduation due to the urgent call of a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity from Philippine Airlines, I also left behind my friends and family without entertaining the idea of when I would be with them again.

 

Many years later, every time I went home, I developed the habit of just staying for several hours in our town crammed with unannounced quick visits to relatives and friends. In the list, Bong and his elder sister, Talama (Kingan) who was my classmate and barkada were always included. I was happy to learn about his settling down and small business. And, I thought, that was it….that he would just be some sort of a businessman, but I was wrong.

 

We met again after more than ten years, but that time, it was at Ayala Avenue during a rush hour as it was a little past five in the afternoon. He excitedly told me about our friends and his forthcoming job. Much as I would like us to have a better place for our conversation, he insisted that we visit Ephraim Collado, his barkada, who was temporarily staying at a nearby place in Makati. After that visit, we exchanged contact numbers. And, when I called him up months later, I found the number to be that of DILG’s but surprised when told that he was in Bilibid. I got panicky because I thought he was detained, until the lady who answered the phone told me that he was “on duty”. The next time I called, I finally talked to him but he was in a hurry so he gave me his address in Muntinlupa. Our quickie phone conversation made me realize that he was with the Bureau of Corrections (BuCor) of the DILG. I failed to visit him due to my hectic schedule.

 

It was Talama who told me more about his job as a warden at Bilibid when I visited her at her office in the Land Transportation Office (LTO) in Tacurong. The next time I learned about the job of Bong was when I read about the news on his exposition of a certain scandal in Bilibid. It was a one-of-a-kind revelation because Bilibid was never thought to be immersed in any scandal as it is a correctional institution, hence, “clean” and free from corruption.

 

I had an opportunity to talk to him through his cellphone while he was already staying in undisclosed places for security reason. What I could not forget was when he told me, “sayang, Pol (the Makilalas call me Pol)….damo pa tani ako sang isiling pero tagilid na ako….bahala na sila sa statements ko…” (…I am disappointed, Pol…I could have revealed more…but I am now in an awkward position….it is up to them on what to do with my statements…) I advised him to pack his things and leave his thankless job, and help his wife back home to develop their business. I also told him to call me anytime, as I was just around and ready to help, but he did not. I contented myself in monitoring the progress of the investigation until the heat of excitement cooled off.

 

One day I got a surprise call from him during which he told me that he was under a protective custody and was about to change his number, so I told him to call me soonest as he got a new one. I told him not to text me as I wanted to hear his voice, to be sure that he was still be alive…I was serious when I told him that. Several years later, I was told that he was back to our place, but I failed to check if he had with him any security escort.

 

When I visited again our hometown, I dropped by his home in New Isabela and glad that I did because I found out that their bedridden mother with whom I was close, was under his care. He had no “security”, so I asked what happened to the “protective custody”, to which he just gave me assurance that he was safe. We had a lengthy talk in their small gazebo over cups of coffee and before I left he showed me his collection of decorative and medicinal plants, so I kidded him to go into herbal medicine business instead of going back to BuCor. He and his wife urged me to always drop by every time I was in town, and they gave me as a foremost reason, their mother who was with them. That was several years ago before Duterte was elected as president.

 

Late afternoon of February 4 2017, Bogz Jamorabon texted me about Bong’s assassination as he got wind of it from a TV news broadcast. I was shocked…first, because I did not expect him to go back to BuCor, and second, because even if he did, I assumed he was safe, with president Duterte as the new president. That evening, I realized that those who wanted to finish him off must have known that he still got plenty of anomalous information about the Bilibid that could eventually pin down de Lima who was then, the Secretary of Justice. I could not sleep that evening as our last phone conversation before he went into protective custody kept creeping into my mind.

 

With the passing of Bong, I am resolved not to be overcome with hate, but rather, pity to those who want to silence him forever. I pity them because for a pittance, they allowed themselves to be used in hindering what could have been the flow of good intention from a guy who just wanted to help his fellowmen.

 

But, for Bong…he may have fallen, but his ideals will never be forgotten. I am proud of him and so are his friends and family, our school, Notre Dame, for having been part of his growing up with great values oozing out of his person. Unfortunately, his unwavering trust in the new administration pushed him off the cliff…

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Ang Simbahang Katoliko, Pastoral Letter Nito, Ang Mga “Pinatay” na Kriminal, at Mga “Biktima” Nila

Ang Simbahang Katoliko, Pastoral Letter Nito,

Ang Mga “Pinatay” Na Kriminal, at “Biktima” Nila

Ni Apolinario Villalobos

 

BINABATIKOS SA PASTORAL LETTER NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO ANG MGA “PAGPATAY” SA MGA DRUG ADDICT, DRUG PUSHER, DRUG LORD AT IBA PANG KRIMINAL DAHIL WALANG KARAPATAN KUNO ANG SINO MANG PUMATAY NA ANG TINUTUKOY AY SI DUTERTE…MAY PRUWEBA BA SILA? KUNG MATINO ANG SIMBAHANG ITO, DAPAT AY HINDI ITO NANGLILIHIS O NANLILITO NG MGA TAO SA PAGBIGAY NG NAKAKALITONG MGA “UTOS” SA PAMAMAGITAN NG PASTORAL LETTER. ANG TANONG…SIGURADO BA ANG MGA LIDER NG SIMBAHANG ITO NA SILA AY MALINIS, NI KATITING AY WALANG INIISIP NA MASAMA? PAANO ANG WALANG HUMPAY NA PANGLILIKOM NG MGA “OFFERING” KUNO TUWING MISA NA DATING ISANG BESES LANG, PERO NGAYON AY DALAWA NA – IDINADAAN SA SOBRE PAGPASOK PA LANG NG MAGSISIMBA SA SIMBAHAN, AT SA BASKET SA BAHAGI NG OFFERTORY?…YAN ANG MATATAWAG KONG PANGHUHUTHOT TO THE MAX!

 

BAKIT HINDI ISINAMA SA PASTORAL LETTER NA YAN ANG MGA “BIKTIMA” NG MGA KRIMINAL?….MGA BIKTIMANG NAGTATRABAHO NG MAAYOS PARA SA KANILANG PAMILYA?…MGA BIKTIMANG ESTUDYANTE NA NAGING ADIK KAYA NASIRA ANG KINABUKASAN?…MGA BIKTIMANG NAWALAN NG KATINUAN KAYA NAGPAKAMATAY?….MGA BIKTIMANG PASLIT NA HINDI LANG GINAHASA KUNDI BINABOY PA ANG KATAWAN DAHIL PINASAKAN NG KUNG ANONG BAGAY ANG PUKE, O DI KAYA AY PINUGUTAN PA NG ULO???!!!

 

ANO BA TALAGA ANG GUMAGABAY SA MGA PARI NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO…DIYOS BA NILA NA DAPAT AY MABAIT O DEMONYO?….BAKIT HINDI NITO I-QUALIFY O BIGYAN NG TAMANG KAHULUGAN ANG SALITANG “PAGKAMATAY” O “PAGPATAY”?….SINO AT KUNG ANO ANG DAHILAN?….HINDI BA NILA NAIISIP NA IBA ANG IBIG SABIHIN NG “PINATAY NA KRIMINAL” KUNG IHAMBING SA “BIKTIMA NG KRIMINAL”? GUSTO BA NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO NA DUMAMI PA ANG NAGLILIPANANG MGA KRIMINAL SA PILIPINAS? MAY KABULUHAN PA BANG MABUHAY ANG KRIMINAL NA SUMISIRA SA KINABUKASAN NG BAYAN????!!!!

 

SA GINAGAWA NG MGA LIDER NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO, PARA SILANG PILOSOPO NA NAGSASABING, “GO TO THE WORLD AND MULTIPLY” NA PINUTOL NILA AT HINDI IDINUGTONG ANG IBA PANG MGA KATAGA UPANG MAGING KUMPLETO SANA ANG “UTOS” NA YAN NG DIYOS NILA. SA MGA HINDI PA NAKAKAALAM, ANG UTOS NA YAN AY IBINIGAY KAY NOAH PAGKATAPOS NG MALAWAKANG BAHA SA BUONG MUNDO, UPANG DUMAMI ULI ANG MGA TAO….NOON YAN. NGAYON AY HINDI NA PWEDENG GAMITIN NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO AT MGA PILOSOPO LABAN SA FAMILY PLANNING PROGRAM.

 

NGAYON, ANG MGA SALITANG “HUWAG PUMATAY” NAMAN ANG GINAGAMIT NG SIMBAHANG KATOLIKO SA PAGLITO SA MGA MIYEMBRO NILA. WALA SANA ITONG PROBLEMA, SUBALIT ANG GINAGAWA NG SIMBAHANG YAN AY NAKAKAAPEKTA SA BUONG BANSA!!!

Practical Tips for Travelling with Kids (and Adults) on the Yucatan Peninsular, Mexico

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Some parents might worry about taking their children to Mexico, because of safety and the necessary preventative vaccines, although there has been much progress and thankfully the country has recently been Malaria free. Despite this it is worth checking what is essential well before you travel.

The country is vibrant and exotic and there are some jabs recommended by the heath authorities, including tetanus, polio and diphtheria. Some people assume that Malaria tablets need to be taken as a cautionary measure but we were ensured that the risk is very low and we did not need to take any.

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In Yucatan we also found there is no need to worry about safety. Police are ever present which does not necessarily mean a place is safe, however from our experience walking around the streets and villages, even at night, no one approached us and we never…

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Ellie Seal Pups~

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Piedras Blancas in California has a thriving rookery of Northern Elephant Seals, a sub-species of the largest seals in the world reaching up to 5000 pounds and 16 feet in length. Pups are born here mostly in the month of January.

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Births peak mid January.
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Over 5000 births occur annually here. Some nice mamas like this one, feed pups other than their own!

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Elephant seals nurse for about a month, during this time, mothers stay with pups continuously and do not return to to the sea to feed until weaning is complete.

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Elephant Seal milk is the richest milk in the mammalian world, which it needs to be since elephant seals grow so rapidly. This cheeky seagull pecked this little pup causing him to unlatch during nursing, releasing milk, which the seagull tried to drink!

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Mama obviously did not approve!
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There are still newborns in the rookery now, identifiable by…

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Hiking Guide for Beginners: Mt. Maculot (Rockies) 2017

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Location:
Cuenca, Batangas
Elevation: Rockies (706 Masl); Summit (930 Masl)
Difficulty: 4/9
Guide: Mandatory/Required

I have always been wanting to climb the infamous Mt Maculot located at Cuenca Batangas ever since I have seen the picturesque view from its summit– overlooking Taal Lake including the renowned Taal volcano. Just this weekend, I have been able to visit this mountain and it was undeniably beautiful, indeed!

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Climbing this mountain requires great endurance as its trail is a never ending ascent. Along the way, there are stores where you can buy something that can cleanse your thirst or something you can chew on. However, most of these stores seldom opens on a weekday. 

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After one and a half hour of trekking, we finally reached the campsite. From there, it will only take you about fifteen minutes to go…

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Friends

Happy Friendship Day!

 

FRIENDS

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

Friends are people and as such have different characters, as no two persons are alike, not even twins. And, because of the varying characters of friends, they can be classified into several kinds:

  • Friends who use their “friends” for selfish motives.
  • Friends who boost their ego at the expense of their “friends”.
  • Friends who are actually “enemies” in disguise.

 

There are no permanent friends, as in a group, any “friend” can sow distrust resulting to a break-up. There may be reconciliation, but whatever fracture that resulted could not be totally healed. In Tagalog it means, “may lamat na ang samahan”.

 

As a simple precaution, in any “friendly” relationship, there should be restraint in revealing the total self. Only the arrogant will reveal to a “friend” about his fat bank account in order to give an impression of his being a superior financial-wise. Only the arrogant will reveal to a “trusted” colleague about his sexual escapades to prove his machismo. And, only the arrogant will reveal to a business associate the total expanse of his clout or connections to prove that he is powerful.

 

Making friends is a risky endeavor as one might accidentally connect with any of the three kinds mentioned above. In making friends, make sure that resulting detrimental situations can be handled. However, if you are any of the three mentioned above, PLEASE….change your ways, because, although, your would-be victims may not be aware of your intention, there is SOMEBODY who knows everything!

Mindanao

Mindanao

By Apolinario B Villalobos

 

Itinuring na lupang ipinangako –

Ng mga Pilipinong dito ay napadako

Mga naglakas-loob na makipagsapalaran

Hindi inalintana panganib na madadatnan.

 

Maraming kuwento ang aking nalaman –

May mga kulay ng lungkot at kaligayahan

Nguni’t lahat ay puno ng hangarin, ng pag-asa

Sa lupang ipinangako’t magigisnang bagong umaga.

 

May mga Pangasinense, Kapampangan, Ilocano

Mayroong Bicolano, Bulakeño, Caviteño, Batangueño

Mga taga-Luzon silang dala ay lakas ng loob, kasipagan

Hindi ininda ang init sa  pagbungkal ng tigang na kabukiran.

 

Mayroon ding galing sa Antique, Negros, isla ng Cebu

Sumunod ang mga taga-Leyte, Antique, Guimaras at Iloilo

Ano pa nga ba’t sa malawak, mayaman at luntiang Mindanao

Magkaiba man ang mga salita, pagkakaisa ay pilit nangingibabaw.

 

Hitik sa kwentong makulay ang buong isla ng Mindanao

Unang tumira’y mga kapatid nating sa relihiyon, iba ang pananaw

Silang mga  taal na katutubo, makukulay, matatapang at mahinahon

Tanging hangad ay mabuhay ng matiwasay, tahimik, sa lahat ng panahon.

 

Ang mga  Kristiyano, Muslim, Lumad – lahat sila ay nagkakaisa

Nagtutulungan, nagbibigayan, mga paniwala man nila ay magkaiba

Nguni’t dahil sa makasariling hangad ng ilang gahaman sa kapangyarihan

Animo kristal na nabasag, iningatang magandang samahan at katahimikan.

 

Nguni’t tayo ay Pilipino, iba tayo – lumalaban na may masidhing pag-asa

Sa harap ng masalimuot na mga problema, matatatag na kalasag ay nakaamba

Ito’y ang masidhing paniniwala sa Maykapal, malalim at marubdob na kapatiran

Ugaling nagbuklod sa mga taga-Mindanao, magkaiba man ang pananaw at kaugalian.

 

Ating isigaw-

Mabuhay ang Mindanaw!

Mabuhay ang Pilipinas!

 

The ISIS, NPA, and Federalism

The ISIS, NPA, and Federalism

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

With the rumor that the Mindanao-based terrorists have been admitted by the ISIS into their fold, there is a need for all Mindanaoans – Christians, Lumads, and Muslims to close ranks. The common enemies of the Mindanaoans this time are the ISIS and their local followers who are viewed as terrorists. There is now a need to forget differences in culture and Faith. Instead, Mindanaoans should think and act as Filipinos. The Middle East-based terrorists are no different from the local NPAs whose current leaders act more like outlaws than defenders of peasants. There are pockets of areas in Mindanao that are still under this group’s shadow. The rash of terroristic acts sowed by NPAs clearly shows that they do not have ONE common leader who calls the shots.

 

The ISIS converts are blind to the fact that this group of terrorists that they admire is being disowned by some Islamic sects. And, for Communism, the ideology is no longer popular even among the Chinese of mainland China. It is no longer viewed in its pure form, as its leaders have learned to absorb a bit of democratic advocacies. The Communists in the Philippines is not even supported by the Communist Party of mainland China. The local Communists live on the sweat and blood of farmers who are forced to pay “taxes” which in reality are “tongs”….hence, the act of extracting “donations” from farmers is actually, “extortion”.

 

The federal system which has a “self-governing” characteristic of government is the best that Mindanaoans can have to effectively fight the ISIS and its local cohorts, as well as, the NPA. The fervor for self-preservation would be strongly felt by Mindanaoans if they, themselves, will do the act of protecting themselves with the support only of the national military. They will be better motivated to fight for the preservation of their stakes on patches of land which their grandfathers have driven down the once marshy land. Add to that the historic claim of the Lumads, the Iranuns, Maguindanoans, and  Maranaos.

 

Mindanaoans must not allow the proliferation of terrorism in their midst for the sake of the future generations. For decades, there had been so much suffering and deprivation. Mindanao today, is in dire need of a united stand against the evil hands!