The “Drive” of a Person Spells His Success

THE “DRIVE” OF A PERSON

SPELLS HIS SUCCESS

By Apolinario Villalobos

 

 

There are people I know who graduated as summa cum laude or magna cum laude or have taken up post studies for Masters and Doctorate, yet, they failed to succeed vis-à-vis with what they have gone through coupled with money spent, without mentioning the time. On the other hand, many average graduates who finished ordinary courses from far-flung colleges have immensely achieved success. Of course, being at the right place at the right time can help, but the most essential factor here, is the “drive” within a person. In this view, the school and books could be necessary but not guarantees for a bright future if those who benefited from them lack the enthusiasm and energy to crash through the hurdles that block their way towards success.

 

This is the real situation in finding an ordinary job by fair means and working one’s way up in the corporate ladder: Graduates, regardless of their course and where they graduated, undergo a series of interview and examination, so it doesn’t matter if one is a graduate of a provincial college or a high-end university in a city, as what matters, is he passes the tests. From the lowest rung of the echelon, he works his way up based on his performance and other on-the-job criteria, and not on how he fared when he graduated as such record is already in his 201 file. The current basis is his performance, diligence, relationship with colleagues and bosses, and punctuality. If the guy is one who does not complain every time added work is given to him, he gets a plus, and also when he shows a congenial teamwork capability and respect for time.

 

The problem with many new-hires today, especially, the snooty graduates of high-end universities, is they complain every time they are given added tasks. They view such tasks with disdain for being not part of their job description, instead of considering them as opportunities for advancement. As a result, because of their high regard to their high-end alma mater, they always expect to find another job if they resign after a short span of stint in the job. On the other hand, graduates of the unassuming colleges have more reasons to work hard and grateful for being hired and recognized for their willingness to learn more by doing added tasks with gusto, which in effect prepares them for better opportunities as they strive for the next rung of their career.

 

Meanwhile, many graduates are so conscious about the “management” attached in their course. It does not spell any difference at all in the face of highly competitive job-hunting today. One typical example is when we had an on-the-job trainee who was taking a two-year secretarial course. She was admirably punctual and even made attempts at editing our drafted memos which we sincerely appreciated, because we were not always sure if what we scribbled to be typed by her were grammatically correct all the time. She put the topsy-turvy office file in order and did not mind rendering overtime if necessary despite her being just an OJT.  After completing the required time, she left and somewhat affected us. When we were in need of a secretary, we put our Human Resources office to task by demanding that we want our former OJT or nobody at all. It took them some time before locating her and finally giving her the job. Today, she is an Executive Secretary…liked by all her colleagues in the office including her boss.

Ang Pag-unawa sa Ugali ng Tao

ANG PAG-UNAWA SA UGALI NG TAO

Ni Apolinario Villalobos

 

UPANG HINDI MAGING 100% ANG GALIT SA ISANG TAO, ALALAHANIN DIN ANG MGA MAGAGANDANG BAGAY NA KANYANG GINAWA. HINDI LANG IISANG UGALI MAYROON ANG TAO…MARAMI AT NAGKAKAIBA – MABUTI AT MASAMA. PERO KUNG SA TINGIN AY TALAGANG UMIIRAL ANG KASAMAAN NG ISANG TAO, UNAWAIN NA LANG, AT IWASAN UPANG WALANG GULO NA BAKA HUMANTONG PA SA SAKITAN.

 

PATI SI HESUS AY NAGMURA DIN AYON SA BIBLIYA. MATINDI ANG KAPANGYARIHAN NG KANYANG PAGMUMURA DAHIL NALANTA ANG PUNO NG PRUTAS NA HINDI NAGKAROON NG BUNGA, PALATANDAANG HINDI NITO GINAMPANAN ANG KANYANG PAPEL SA MUNDO. DAHIL SA PAGKA-INUTIL NG PUNO AY NAGING BIKTIMA RIN SI HESUS NA GUTOM NANG PANAHONG YON. KUNG ANG PAGMUMURA SIGURO NI DUTERTE AY MAY MATINDI RING KAPANGYARIHAN TULAD NG KAY HESUS, BAKA ANG MGA DRUG LORDS AY NALUSAW NA!

 

ANG DEMONYO AY MAY PAKINABANG NA NAI-AMBAG SA LAYUNIN NG DIYOS DAHIL GINAMIT SIYA NITO UPANG SUBUKAN SI HESUS. DAPAT TANDAANG HINDI MALALAMAN KUNG MABUTI ANG GINAGAWA NG ISANG TAO KUNG WALANG MASAMANG PAGBABATAYAN. LAHAT NG BAGAY SA MUNDO AY DAPAT IBATAY SA IBA PA UPANG MALAMAN KUNG ANONG URI SIYA. HINDI MALALAMAN NG ISANG TAO, HALIMBAWA, NA SIYA AY MATANGKAD KUNG WALANG PANDAK! WALANG MASASABING MABANGO KUNG HINDI ALAM KUNG ANO ANG AMOY NG MABAHO!

 

AYON PA RIN SA BIBLIYA, KAHIT PINATAY NI CAIN SI ABEL AY HINDI SIYA TULUYANG ITINAKWIL NG DIYOS, BAGKUS AY NILAGYAN SIYA NG TATAK UPANG HINDI KUYUGIN NG IBANG TAONG MASASALUBONG NIYA NA NAKAALAM NG KANYANG GINAWA. GANOON DIN ANG GINAWA KAY ADAN AT EBA, PATI ANG ULUPONG NA PINALAYAS NA LANG SA HARDIN NG GETSEMANE, AYON SA ALAMAT TUNGKOL SA PARAISO NA NAKASAAD SA BIBLIYA. PALAGAY KO, KUNG TINULUYANG PATAYIN NG DIYOS ANG ULUPONG AT HINDI BASTA NA LANG PINALAYAS, BAKA ANG UGALING TRAIDOR NG TAO AY HINDI UMIIRAL NGAYON!

 

SA PANAHON NAMAN NGAYON, KAHIT ANG MGA NAGING ADIK AT PUSHER AY MINSAN DIN NAMAN SIGURONG NAGING MABAIT NA ANAK O ASAWA AT NAAKAY LANG NG MGA MASASAMANG KAIBIGAN O NAITULAK NG MASIDHING PANGANGAILANGAN. NAMATAY SILA DAHIL NANLABAN SA UMAARESTO O PINATAY MISMO NG DATI NILANG MGA AMONG POLICE NINJA AT IBA PANG DRUG PUSHER NA AYAW MAITURO…KAYA HUWAG ITURO SINA DUTERTE AT DE LA ROSA NA MAY PAKANA NG LAHAT.

 

FINALLY, HINDI HININGI NG BAWA’T TAO NA SIYA AY IPANGANAK SA MUNDO. DAHIL DIYAN, GANOON NA LANG SIGURO ANG  PAG-IYAK AT PAGPALAHAW NG BAGONG ISINILANG NA SANGGOL NANG MARAMDAMANG INILABAS SIYA SA MUNDO DAHIL NAAMOY NITO ANG MABANTOT NA MARUMING HANGIN, AT LALONG TUMINDI PA ANG KANYANG IYAK…PALUIN BA NAMAN SIYA GANOONG WALA NAMAN SIYANG KASALANAN AT KARARATING LANG NIYA SA MUNDONG MARUMI AT MAGULO!